Happy Cheer Up Singles Day! (Feb. 15th)

[Niamh Sedai]

I also like that you can flirt with who you like and there is no guilt. Unless someone takes the flirting seriously, which is rubbish!

[Jhaenara]

I flirt with who I like and feel no guilt...

 

Muwhahahahahaa!

 

I mean errr...

 

No, really... Tom doesn't care... :)

[King of the Reds]

Zardi, I miss the cheesiness of the holiday though. I like being single, but I also want someone in my life dammit!! lol

[Maria]

Yeah, I'm with Ender. I don't mind being single, in that I'm not desperate. But if someone I like liked me back I wouldn't say no or anything :P

[Dwynwen]

Ooh, Ender's here!

 

Ender is so sweet. He's free with compliments, and conversations with him are always fun.

 

I don't enjoy being single, but I'm not desperate either. My unrealistically high standards are likely one main reason for my singledom.

[BenTGaidin]

Yeah, Ender's really cool. *grins* He's also in large part responsible for the Reds being so cool, too! Plus, he's the first DMer I ever met in person, so you've got to respect him for that.

 

Ben

[Tigara]

I'm not single anymore! I have a friend who thought that because I homeschool, I would never get a girlfriend. So I asked my friend from camp to join my evil scheme to make him eat his words. She agreed, but it will be a long-distance relationship.*nods*

[Dwynwen]

Wow, that was fast! Congratulations! I hope, though, that you aren't with her just to spite your friend. :shock:

[Talya]

I have to agree being songle definately has it's plus points....you do have the freedom and no one to answer to as such. At times I really feel I don't have time for anyone in my life...then occassionaly I fell a little lonely and miss the closeness of a relationship..and then I think...when do I have time to fit a bf in... :D

 

Tigs...long distance can work so best of luck...in fact you have the best of both worlds. Still the freedom and also someone there for you.

[King of the Reds]

Awww... thank you Maria, Dwyn, and Ben. :D I know others have said it, but I think you all are great too (even those of you who didn't compliment me. *points*) lol

[hazel6748]

Hi to all the singles and I love the line "I think, therefore I'm single!" One thing I have learned over many years is that I am kind of reclusive, and I love being alone and doing things that I enjoy. With another person around, there is this thing about feeling guilty if you are not spending time with them. I no longer feel that I am supposed to be in a relationship to be happy. I KNOW I am happy just being myself. Do I get lonely? Sometimes, but I get over it fast when I spend time with my grandkids! Then I appreciate the facts, we are not alone because we have to be, but we want to be! I love them dearly, but very glad to only see them a few times a year and then they go home and I can have my peace and quiet and not listen to my son and his wife argue and the kids screaming! :lol:

[Talya]

*sees Ender pointing at her*

 

Ender I think you great...erm...just don't know you so :oops: .....your cool as well.

[Niamh Sedai]

I'm being pointed at? I apologise for not noticing the Awesome of Ender before now ;)

[Dwynwen]

Hi, Hazel! Welcome to our thread. I don't think I've met you before, but I admire the optimism you just displayed!

[hazel6748]

Thanks! I try to be optomistic, and at least realistic! :lol:

[hazel6748]

Hope all of you don't mind my posting in here, I joined the user group, but not the Accepted yet.

[BenTGaidin]

Nah, you're perfectly welcome. *grins and waves* You sound like a good sort of person to have around, anyway.

[hazel6748]

Thanks Ben! I sent in the email to Lor, but no reply yet, I will be patient! :lol:

[hazel6748]

I love my siggy, but keep forgetting to check it! :lol:

[Zardi]

Go to your profile, then scroll down to the Preferences section. Click "yes" for "always attach my signature." Then go to the bottom of the page and click "submit." ;)

[Tigara]

No, I'm not just going out with her to irritate my friend. I have known her for years and she is a really sweet person and would never do anything to hurt her.*nod nod nod*

[hazel6748]

Thank you Zardi! :lol:

[Dwynwen]

I'm glad to hear that, Tigara! :)

 

Hazel, are you joining as a novice or an algai?

[BenTGaidin]

Psst... Go for the warders! *grins*

[hazel6748]

Don't know yet Dwyn, haven't gotten anything back from the email I sent Lor yet. I haven't a clue how to do this, don't have a mentor yet! :lol: