Who Is Vam?

[Aiel Heart]

*Braces self*

[Turin Turambar]

  On 9/30/2011 at 1:47 AM, Vam said:

find something productive to do mawthtex ... you're in college. Go do things you'll regret later in life. isnt that what college kids do? Go spawn a love child or something or take up an addiction.

 

I'm no one important... i'm no one you know... i'm no one anyone else on here knows ... i'm not here to make friends with you or join your little DM clique... i just make stupid comments here and there when i'm bored. There is nothing to learn about me. I'm not harriet jordan in disguise or brandon sanderson's alter-ego.

 

Get over it.

 

I think we should respect these peoples privacy and just step away. Everyone has a right to privacy. If you don't wish to share then that is your choice and should be respected.

 

However Vam, If you are not interested in being part of this community as your comment suggests, then please just stay away. Your "stupid comments"(your words) in some places have been hurtful and diminish the fun for the rest of the group. I will respect your right to privacy. I would appreciate it if you would respect our right to enjoy ourselves as we see fit. This group is not harming anyone.

 

Cindy, I am sorry if you find this hurtful in any way. That was not my intent.

[inferno]

so whats the big deal with this vam person? im super confused lol.

[Aiel Heart]

Read the whole thread.... Kinda explains the extent of what most of us know about Vam

 

basically though, we're all (except Cindy it seems....) somewhat confused and we're supposed to stay that way :P

[Mrs. Cindy Gill]

@turin - i do find it hurtful.

 

and in case you were wondering, i posted freely here, and with noone telling me to stay away if i wasn't interested in being a part of this commuinty, for quite some time before i ever considered joining.

 

it's an open board.

 

noone is trying to stop you from enjoying yourself. and i don't know what your standard for hurtful or fun diminishing are, but i've seen nothing of the kind. and i read them all.

 

 

this went too far for me, but if that's not something any of you can understand or respect, i'll just leave you all in peace.

[inferno]

  On 9/30/2011 at 3:34 AM, Aiel Heart said:

Read the whole thread.... Kinda explains the extent of what most of us know about Vam

 

basically though, we're all (except Cindy it seems....) somewhat confused and we're supposed to stay that way :P

 

i did read the whole thread thats why im confused lol. Its too late to be using my brain

[Aiel Heart]

Let's please stop fighting here? That's what the discussion boards are for.

 

Mawth, I know you're curious, we all are, and I know it was all just innocent fun and all of that, but apparently it struck a cord and is really pissing people off. So you and others let's just back off

 

Cindy, Vam, no one's trying to attack either of you personally. As I said before, just innocent fun, the jesting and such that is really common around here. Sorry it got too personal. I understand that you did try to warn them, but that was a bit harsh nonetheless.

 

Now can we stop with the mudslinging? This was the last place I ever thought I'd have to get in mediator/counselor mode.

 

Think it's time to call this thead done. Agreed? Everyone just continue the rest of life as normal

[Turin Turambar]

I agree.

 

I wish to apologize to all of you, especially Vam and Cindy . My words were wrong. First, I spoke for all of you where I had no right. Second, I attributed motive where none could be proven. Furthermore, I spoke ill of someone I do not know without real cause. In the process I hurt someone who I respect and had come to like in friendship. I may have irrepably damaged that relationship, which will be the greatest punishment in this case. If there are any repercussions from DM I will accept them without complaint or rebuttal. My only purpose here is to express my regret.

 

I ask for forgiveness but do not expect it. Again, I am truly sorry for my actions.

[Vam]

Oh relax TT. if you really think cindy would pissed at you for more than about 3.5 seconds, you're mistaken. I will take your advice above on board :)

 

Cindy - kiss and make up with TT plz. I asked for this (not overly intentionally, but still) - you cant hold it against them for getting their panties in a bunch. I did help with the twisting.

 

Mawthtex - highschool is too early for you to be spawning love children. I humbly retract my previous comments and ask forgiveness..

 

i'm glad we all got to have a royal tanti. Its very healthy once in a while. Now everyone has that out of their systems - they can go back to sp@mming bananas etc.

 

Enjoy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

san deimas highschool football rules!!!

[Netbattler11]

I apologize for starting this. I had no idea how far it would go, although i really should have.

 

Vam- Forgiven, although i should probably be the one asking you. I could do that kind of verbal sparring all day, which is probably why i didn't realize it was going overboard sooner.

 

Again, apologies to all concerned.

[hazelkrs1]

This def tread into the slightly awkward territory for a bit (the thread itself I mean), but I am happy we're somewhat ending it on a slightly positive note. On the one hand, it was one more episode to add the the "As the Tower Turns" soap opera going on here. On the other, we prob should have respected Cindy, and Vam's (not implying a relation there, even though it def wouldn't seem to be the biggest stretch) privacy a while ago. Oh well, no harm no foul hopefully.

 

Turin, I hope Cindy doesn't mind me bringing this up, but I have slipped up before and ran afoul of our wubbing little kitteh, and she was gracious enough to forgive me for my error, so I have no doubt she'll be able to appreciate your apology and forgive you as well.

 

Kudos to Vam for the Billy Madison quote btw, haven't seen that movie in a while lol.

 

"Chlorophyll? More like Borophyll!"

[Mrs. Cindy Gill]

  On 9/30/2011 at 6:00 AM, Vam said:

Oh relax TT. if you really think cindy would pissed at you for more than about 3.5 seconds, you're mistaken. I will take your advice above on board :)

 

Cindy - kiss and make up with TT plz. I asked for this (not overly intentionally, but still) - you cant hold it against them for getting their panties in a bunch. I did help with the twisting.

 

Mawthtex - highschool is too early for you to be spawning love children. I humbly retract my previous comments and ask forgiveness..

 

i'm glad we all got to have a royal tanti. Its very healthy once in a while. Now everyone has that out of their systems - they can go back to sp@mming bananas etc.

 

Enjoy.

 

 

 

 

i'm sorry, please forgive me. you're right. i'm not mad at anybody except myself.

[hazelkrs1]

We shouldn't be mad at anyone, life is awesome and we're lucky enough to sit up as mud and see what other mud can not. Except for lighties, we can be mad at them cause they're goofy goody too shoes who are rude enough to presume to think they deserve to breath the same air as us.

 

10 imaginary points to the person who picks up on the quote I'm referring to in that first sentence

[Aiel Heart]

I know I've heard it..... MEH

[Deak]

This was a really weird thread to read, lol.

[Mrs. Cindy Gill]

i wish it would disappear.

[hazelkrs1]

Granted. Unfortunately your computer disappears along with it.

 

I wish I wasn't posting this in the wrong thread

[Aiel Heart]

If it stays then people would know better to leave Vam alone.

 

Hahahahahahahahahahaahhaha Despo you silly

[Talmanes]

LOCKED

 

I don't want to see threads that are specifically targeting someone like this. This is an open board and no one owes anymore explanation than they want to give.

 

Now as long as something like this was all in good fun it may have been okay, but clearly, it was not. Even though it looks like everyone kind of got to a nice standstill, at least partially, I'm still locking this, because it should not have been posted in the first place, and I was going to delete it, but decided against it, because then I would have to make a new topic for this post, and I'm happy to let it end here.