hmmmmm...

[Illiara]

Maybe I should bond the first person to post in this thread...I don't know, I'm bored that's why.

[Leane_Shariff]

umm bonding is a friendship, not something you do to cure boredom LOL :P

[Adanza]

*sighs* ah, my dear, i know how you feel! i'm STILL unbonded! but it is a sign of friendship, like Leane Sedai said. maybe you and i could go hunting...ur we could both keep our eyes open for warders to snare…I mean form friendships with! :lol:

[Niamh Sedai]

I would advise sweetie, that you also don't spam on the boards. It's liable to make some people tetchy ;)

 

*hugs*

[Maria]

Or you can become friends, then bond *each other*.

 

Seriously, though, guys. A bond isn't something to take easily. Imagine having someone who shares your every emotion, who feels everything you feel, and who knows where you are at any time. Yes, we're not any of us real Aes Sedai with actual channeling powers, but a bond should be looked upon with the same respect, nonetheless.Take some time to make friends and get to know people, then worry about bonding and the such. In your everyday life you don't go up to random strangers and ask them to be your best friend, either. It's kind of the same thing.

 

Mia

[Leane_Shariff]

oooo my first time being called Leane Sedai :D

hehe I like it! LOL

[Raeyn]

Heh, I waited about a year and a half before I made a bonding of ANY stripe; and I was most happy that I waited that long :) Though now I've got more bondees than I know what to do with.... silly community good times :)

[Illiara]

Oh, sorry.... :oops:

I just didn't know how to go about this properly...

Now that I know, I'll not joke about it again. Thanks for the warning.

[Maria]

That's allright, sweetie. We all have to learn. It's not easy coming to a new place, and we don't expect you to know all the unwritten rules right away. =)

[Adanza]

oh, jokes don't do any harm!! :D

 

hmm, i think someone wrote up a whole thing about bonds on the old warder's boards...i wonder if anyone saved that. it would be a good thing for the newbies who weren't here at the time to read! it was like 'bonding: a warders point of view' or some such.

[Cleopatra Narisse]

That would be me, Adanza. If you would like Illiara I can email it to you. Don't feel badly for posting like you did, many of us have done nearly the same thing.

 

Oh and just my own advice, but maybe get to know a few people and make a strong friendship first.

 

We can bond anyone here. And there are several type of bondings... it can get confusing. *lol*

 

Let me know hun. You have my private email.

[Lanette]

Bond away, ladies! But of the Tower Guards, I've already put a Fox-head Medallion on Llugh for until I become AS.

 

ooops! Should I have said it out loud being a brand new novice? :oops:

[Jhaenara]

You can Bond at any level on the Community side, Lanette, so it's okay... lol... Though it's still something I would take seriously or be very sure on... :)

 

It's a bit confusing between the two sides of the site sometimes. You do have to wait until full raising (for both AS and Warder) on the RP side, but not here.

[Lanette]

That's great!

[MsDanya]

yup! so bond away Lanette!! :D i'm very happy to have a warder here, even if he only visits once a month,after being forced to by me.. hehe

[Lanette]

hey, by the way, where's Spacey? Any idea? Still having exams?

[MsDanya]

i have no idea! :cry: tried pming Cuma, but he havent answered it yet.. and spacey should be done with his exams by now.. i think he was hit by the Danya-curse :P

[Lanette]

what on earth is that??

[MsDanya]

*points to siggie* how many of the ones i'm either bonded, banded or sister to is still here?? :P a warning to all, get attached to Danya, and you will dissappear into the great nothing.. it didnt take them long either :?

[Lanette]

awww...no way! I will get Banded to you with pleasure it comes to that! And you'll see that I won't disappear!

 

*feels guilty*

 

I think it was a poem that I let Spacey read that did it.

[MsDanya]

*BG* :D well, thats what my other banded told me too but i certainly wouldnt mind if it will come to that

 

and i dont think spacey left because of your poem!!! i tell ya, it was the curse!! :P

[Lanette]

nope. the poem! :P