Confused,

Have you heard the saying "a bird in the hand is worth two long distance friendships"? Well, it's true. I'm not saying to stay in your relationship no matter what, but work on that one first. If your relationship with your girlfriend goes pear shaped and there's no saving it then go ahead, end it and move on.

"The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence" is another cliche that comes to mind. When your own relationship is rocky of course a new friendship seems just great! Instead of bailing on your current girl in hopes of the new relationship working out, it's best to work on your own yard first.

*twitch*

I'm sorry, I just woke up from a rather, erm, long nap. What the hell was that drivel? Clearly *someone* was piping mushy self help tapes in to my rooms for the past age. Confused, your answer is simple. Go for the hotter one, especially if she is more powerful but yet also willing to bend to your will.

ta!

Graendal