who had the most women or "wives"? Mat, Perrin, or Rand?

[urrutiap]

im still busy with Memory of  Light and the book series of Wheel of Time over the past few years has been fun but good grief, i swear either Mat, Perrin or Rand has had the most women or at least wives by accident or forced upon them

[Caelan Arendor]

As far as I can recall, a meticulous tally brings me to three long-term partners for Rand (to avoid revealing the storyline at this juncture, I shall refrain from disclosing the girl's names!);

But having three 'supergirls' as companions is certainly not a poor outcome, is it?"

[Tenobia si bashere kazadi]

well Mat probably has been with the most women, Perrin only really had his wife. 

[Mailman]

On 11/24/2025 at 11:23 PM, urrutiap said:

im still busy with Memory of  Light and the book series of Wheel of Time over the past few years has been fun but good grief, i swear either Mat, Perrin or Rand has had the most women or at least wives by accident or forced upon them

I don't think this statemen is correct. Not being entirely sure of your book progress i will not start examining things in detail but if you could provide the examples that have led you to this belief would be handy.

[urrutiap]

17 hours ago, Mailman said:

I don't think this statemen is correct. Not being entirely sure of your book progress i will not start examining things in detail but if you could provide the examples that have led you to this belief would be handy.

yes it is correct. rand, mat or perry at least two of them have had more women in their lives than they ever did when they lived in their home village back in the begining.

 

 

[Mailman]

5 hours ago, urrutiap said:

yes it is correct. rand, mat or perry at least two of them have had more women in their lives than they ever did when they lived in their home village back in the begining.

 

 

Not sure what the fact that 3 young virgins experienced more sexual activity after they left the village has to do with 

 

On 11/24/2025 at 11:23 PM, urrutiap said:

i swear either Mat, Perrin or Rand has had the most women or at least wives by accident or forced upon them

what is the accidental or forced activity you are referring to?

[Quarry Road]

1. Mat

2. Rand

3. Perrin

[Mailman]

Mat is the only one that has question marks. To the best of my knowledge, he only has 3 confirmed lovers Melinhdra, Tylin and Tuon. It is heavily implied that he slept or pursued a number of maids and waitress's but from what I can remember all the scenes that actually are in the books ended with nothing more than dancing and kissing.

 

Perrin only sleeps with Faile.

 

Rand only sleeps with Aviendha (two times only), Elayne (once) and Min (multiple times).

 

It is possible that if you are assessing it on amount of times they actually have sex in total and not partners that Perrin could come out on top.

[Caelan Arendor]

Perrin seems to be the most "conservative" one...He obviously ist  the least inclined to become a womanizer. He strikes me as so impeccably well-behaved that I almost start to feel guilty about my own youthful years...😁