Only touching on this on the aspect of real life beliefs, since you mention real world and I have no real interest in going into the debate about the change in reincarnation rules in the wot.
While I'm now atheist, I grew up in a household with a religion that believes in the cycle of reincarnation.
It actually feels more natural to me (no doubt due to indoctrinated upbringing) that reincarnation has no boundary in terms of sex or even species. I grew up with the understanding that a person can reincarnate as the opposite sex, or even animal or even a cockroach in their next life.