Just went through the scene. Such a comment is not there.

 

The gholam's original orders were from Sammael; mainly to deal with the channelers (Nynaeve/Elayne/Avendha, the 2 other Aes Sedia, etc).

It's in CH. 16. I'm on audiobook this time 'round so i don't have a page number.

You are thinking of aCoS chpt 38.

That's when the Gholam says that and he is referring to Elayne.

That reference is correct too. i just listen to it again and the gholam didn't say it again, just Mat remembers him saying that in the rahad. the exact words were "he wants you dead as much as he wants her". So what i'm getting from the above answers is the "he" is Sammael and the "her" is Elayne? And does he mean he wants her dead too, or just that he wants her? hmm.

I'm on a re-read of WH and just read the second encounter with the gholam (in the ally where noal shows up). He tells Mat something like "he wants you as much as he wants her." Who is she? If it's been made known i completely forgot. Thanks.

I'm just starting a tSR re-read and noticed something a bit odd. It says (ch. 5) that Amico was stilled during her capture. I'm pretty sure that's not mentioned in tDR. I only remember Nynaeve punching her in the face and their shields vanish. Am i missing something?

Have we ever seen examples of the supposed side effects of entering TAR in the flesh? I believe the wise ones said it makes you lose some of your humanity. RJ wouldn't have just thrown that it if there wasn't a reason. Egwene did it in spite of warning and we haven't seen anything amiss. Rand's done it a whole bunch of times. The only possible example i see would be Slayer (I assume he's entering in the flesh) and perrin doesn't think he smells human.