The problem with that scenario is that both Tigraine and Morgase outranked Taringail at the time of their marriages.
Taringail was Laman's nephew, not his son. Though Laman had no children at the time, it was presumed that he eventually would. And those children would be in the direct line of succession to the Sun Throne - well ahead of Taringail. But Tigraine was the Daughter-Heir when she married Taringail, while Morgase was the actual Queen.
It would have been impossible for either Mantear or Trakand to hold the Lion Throne after taking the name of a foreign house - especially through a husband they outranked. If Morgase had taken the name Damodred after winning the throne, she would have immediately lost it again.
Prior to the War of Succession, Taringail certainly outranked anyone from House Trakand (which is why a Cairhienin lord would have gotten the idea) and any such marriage would have gone that way. But "Morgase Damodred" would never have won the throne. And once she won, she was his superior in every way.
It was considered good politics in Andor for Morgase to marry Tigraine's widower. It would have been political suicide to take his name.