So I read like half the comments, so joined down the rabbit hole.  I just reread the entire series again, finished yesterday, so everything is pretty fresh.  The people of Emond’s Field are exactly as the trailer was cast.  Our intro in the book was the women’s circle saying men were woolheaded idiots that had to be steered the right way, where the village council were always saying the let the women think they ran things to keep them happy but everyone knew who the real power was.  The trailer was in nyneave’s narration so of course it’s gonna be from her point of view.  I’m sure we will be immediately introduced to the back and forth between both groups.

Also what does it matter if nyneave snuck up on lan?  She did so in the books several times, also it was stated she was a better tracker then lan, this doesn’t make lan any less powerful of a warrior because an expert tracker snuck up and disarmed him.  Lan isn’t looking for a subservient woman, he’s looking for an equal and that’s why he’s attracted to her.