I think that a lot of Nynaeve changed attitude is not only being married to Lan, its also Lan giving her tips about commanding and acting like a real aes sedai that he got from experience being around Moiraine all there years.

But i think that being around a man she couldnt or wouldnt boss around all the time helps too.

(or maybe its the love making)

I dont understand the problem here.

the first book was mostly from Rand's pov so there could be things we didnt see.

Rand at least knew about their love, when they got married Mat was so stunned he didnt know what to say.

You dont believe in love at first sight?

besides they are both wierd enough to find things in the other to love that will look odd for a normal person...

Cant a guy just say what he thinks anymore?

I just gave you my honest opinion...

Thats what im saying!

they are all crazy and fanatic and i dont care that they died.

Its not exactly the same. in the matrix the only poeple who know about their prophecy where out of the "illusion world" and their prophecy didnt include commiting suicide.

And the man of the prophecy (Neo) had the a lot of doubts himself and a hard time believing that he himself was the one.

The amayar all did it!! not one man thought "maybe i should stay alive to tell about what happend here write a book about it and make a fortune!?!"

it just bothers me...

Personally i think that they deserved to die.

If an entire nation killed it self because of a prophesy about a statue that melts then they are all crazy and stupied!

I mean common , not one of them was smart enough to think "well i dont care about that prophecy im not going to kill myself!"

If it was me i wouldnt kill myself even is it was the end of the world...