I have to say this was an exceedingly hard book for me to read.  I was so depressed and despairing almost until the very end.  I was losing hope fast and I really didn't see how many of the people I have grown to know and love were going to survive.  For me the best parts of the book (not the hardest, saddest or worst) were:

• Min taking Fortuona to task in front of all her army.  Very well played.
• Faile giving the horn to Olver and then running so that he might live.  
• Bela saving the day!
• Androl and the masterful way he used Gateways, about damn time.
• Pevara becoming human.
• Egwene going out in a blaze of glory and crafting something new.
• Birghitte being called back to and kicking Mellar's ass.
• Suian saying to hell with Min's viewings and sacrificing herself to do the right thing.
• Olver's ride on the to'raken.

Things that made me cry:

• When the armies came to join Lan at Tarwin's Gap.
• Faile giving the horn to Olver and then running so that he might live.
• Bela dying.  Bravest horse there ever was.
• Birghitte being killed and the thought of Elayne losing the babies.
• Egwene's death just rocked me.  I wanted her to live so much.
• Noal coming to save Olver, one of the most beautiful things to happen.

Things I wanted more of:

• More of the fight between Egwene and M'Hael.
• More of the fight between Moridin and Rand.
• More of what happened with Padan Fain.
• More of the story of Luc and Slayer, not just Slayer's actions.
• More of an epilogue. Not when it came to Rand, but more of what did the nations do. Who succeeded who?

I'm sure there's more, overall I am glad it ended.  Did it end the way I wanted it to, more or less yes.  I will miss whole-heartedly Egwene Al'Vere, the most amazing Amrylin to ever live.