I would encourage you to check out the following link. These books specifically contain themes that target homosexuals like yourself.
WOT was written over 23 years and has captured the hearts and minds of thousands. I provided you a link with books where you can be "reflected in it". WOT does contain lgbt themes. Let that speak for itself. Also don't impress your lifestyle on works of art. Let nature run its course. The "woke" of society will influence each subsequent generation through the public school system and out of that generation will come your flag waving authors. You just may need to wait a bit. I really don't understand why they want to make wheel of time woke. They are going to marginalize the majority of their readers while catering to a minority. They cannot honestly expect to turn a profit on this. Instead, they will destroy the one chance the series had at a accurate representation of Robert Jordan's life work.