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Elgee

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  1. 21 hours ago, Nyniamh Sedai said:

    Thank you all for your welcome!! It’s nice to be here. ☺️

     

    Good to see you here! Are you finding your way around? If in doubt, just scroll down ... LoL

  2. 6 minutes ago, HeavyHalfMoonBlade said:

    But I'd argue that "being the bigger person" can be interpreted as to how you respond.  I would say that it should taken as not reacting to pettiness with pettiness, to lies with lies, to hurtful remarks with hurtful remarks or to anger with anger. 

     

    I would fully agree with you, if people meant it as you explained there. Unfortunately people usually mean "be the bigger person" as things like "just walk away". It's that type of reaction which I'm referring to, but yah it should be made a bit clearer, heh?

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    I'm now in agreement with this. "Being the bigger person" just allows abusive people to continue being abusive not just to oneself, but to others. In other words, it's actually a cowardly cop-out.

    It took having some of my people getting abused in order for me to realise this, and break the chain.

    We live and learn.

     

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